"May you awaken to the mystery of being here and enter the quiet immensity of your own presence."
-John Odonohue, excerpt from Blessing for Presence
Written by Amia Freeman, Power Music PRO:
For the past six months I was in the process of relocating to a new city and that meant I would have to give up all of my classes where established relationships, rhythms, and recognizing each other's favorite song on that go-to playlist all came to a standstill.
I recently heard one of those songs, and it triggered the ugly cry in addition to something I hadn’t expected; a long exhale. It’s likely this was a long overdue exhale of release, one that perhaps I’d been holding since 2020. When emotions and demands were high, many of our pivots took us into places and spaces we didn't know we needed to be and we hadn’t realized that we get to be ‘off’.
As a fitness instructor, I think you know what I mean. It’s a false perception that because we thoroughly enjoy what we do, it’s genuinely our get-to; that we’re always ON or, worse, need to be on. I didn’t think I had reached the point of burnout, or exhaustion, but after reading a recent definition, here I am. I’m drawn to the poem mentioned above, and another one of its lines reads: May your outer dignity mirror an inner dignity of soul. May you take time to celebrate the quiet miracles that seek no attention. May you be consoled in the secret symmetry of your soul. May you experience each day as a sacred gift, Woven around the heart of wonder.
I wonder, when we are on, and the speakers are in sync with our minds and bodies, and our commitments are bound to keep the crowd and momentum in peak performance, if giving up classes is a little more than bittersweet; if perhaps it’s like giving up a piece of yourself.
According to a recent professional journal in the ACE Certified TM monthly newsletter; burnout is described by the World Health Organization as an “occupational phenomenon,” not a medical condition:
“Burnout is a syndrome characterized as resulting from chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed. It is characterized by three dimensions:
Burnout refers specifically to a phenomena in the occupational context and should not be applied to describe experiences in other areas of life.”
If you are mindful of how you’re feeling about your workload and career at any given moment, you can develop an awareness of whether you’re starting to exhibit signs of impending burnout. [source: ACE Certified: June 2022 - Surviving or Thriving]
I initially thought this wasn’t burnout, that it’s just going to be a season of being really difficult to start over. Luckily, I was championed by one of my mentors with the reminder that I'm not actually starting over; I'm evolving and carrying the work with me wherever I go. After saying my goodbyes, I packed up my playlist and reminded myself that I'm not done; I'm just in training season. I used to say that I'm not an athlete, but fitness is my sport, and like any other athlete, there's a playing season, and then there's a training season.
I have decided while I am not actually in the classroom teaching, I get to, notice I didn't say have to, I get to be in the classroom learning and training. In an effort to celebrate the quiet moments and maintain the symmetry of my soul, I’ve adopted a few rhythms to train my heart, my mind, and my body.
As a healthy behaviors coach, I offer a few mindful principles with my clients that I call “the invitation to adjust your focus”. I guess it’s worth saying, we get to practice what we preach. In my coaching practice, FOCUS is an acronym that invites us into a space of grace in order to FINISH OUR COMMITMENTS UNAPOLOGETICALLY STRONGER. Physically, mentally, financially, emotionally and relationally.
Here are a few FOCUS tools to help you whether you’re in an off season or a season that feels off:
If we are not intentionally living mindfully, we will habitually begin living mindlessly.
Another tool that I’ve found helpful is the daily practice of journaling and meditation. I’d love for you to join me now for this Moment of Mindfulness.
About the Author: Amia Freeman is a leading expert in holistic group and personal fitness, nutritional & lifestyle modification, and spiritual growth coaching. She has been transforming lives for almost 20 years, teaching diverse health and fitness programs, keeping clients motivated, minimizing plateaus, and increasing spiritual, physical and mental strength.